Top: Dressed for success, with a swing to match Upper: Smiles come easily on the golf course Middle: Kids can learn quickly when they bond together Bottom: A young golfer works on her grip 26 | July 2017 #juniorgolfmag Visit us at juniorgolfmag.net We provide children with the tools and skills to develop their own love and passion for the game. Their self-motivation and drive will determine their future journey in the sport. While we accompany them on their golf journey, they are in the driver’s seat. For us, the most rewarding part of the job is seeing how far they will go when they are in control. With parents, our aim is to help them un- derstand how they can help us nurture their child’s development. So while this is directed at moms and dads, it’s also something kids should know so they can remind their parents from time to time. There are two questions we are often asked. The first one is, “What do I do when my child has shown an interest in the game?” The key is finding the right junior program and coach. Don’t be afraid to try out multiple coaches. Your child will know when they have found the right one. In addition, provide them with equipment that fits – we always choose U.S. Kids Golf. Too many children use clubs that are too long, too stiff and too heavy. It is very important that your child is fitted for the correct set of clubs. The proper club length and weight are keys to solid fundamentals, and that’s why players are fit into U.S Kids Golf clubs based on height, not age. Remember that your child should grow out of his or her equip- ment, not into it. It’s nice to accompany them to practice, but only explain things if they ask about them. Let the coaches do the coaching. When your child hits a good shot, give a posi- tive response. If they hit a bad shot, encourage them by complimenting their swing. Enjoy golf with them. Be a kid yourself. Get out and play the games they have learned in class. Let them see you attempt goals and fail; let them see you attempt goals and succeed. Celebrate with them and just have fun! The second question we are asked is, “If my child is having a lot of success in the game, how do I keep my child engaged and motivated?” The more accomplished they become, the more they simply need you to be a parent. Be there to share in the excitement and to offer re- assurance. Be there when they need someone to listen, or when they simply need a hug. Always praise good attitude, effort and self-improvement over winning. That means putting emphasis on the process, not the out- come. It entails allowing them to set their own goals and decide for themselves if they’ve ex- ceeded them. Respect their own goals and achievements; do not compare them to anyone else’s. When they say they need a break, let them take it. Your day should not be defined by their score. Al- ways arrive at the course as a happy family and leave that same way. Every now and again, it’s important to think, “Why did I choose to introduce my child to the greatest game ever played?” That very reason will keep you on the right path. Whether your kid is a beginner or an experi- enced golfer, you need to sit back and enjoy the journey with them. Appreciate everything the game throws at them, for this is more than just a game; it’s a blueprint for life. Michelle Holmes is the founder of Michelle Holmes School of Golf. She is an LPGA Teaching Professional and a Top 50 U.S. Kids Instructor. Provide the Tools for a Great Experience BY MICHELLE HOLMES “Create experiences that will encourage kids to play the game forever.” That is the mission of Michelle Holmes School of Golf, and it is something we work tirelessly to achieve every day through our classes, coaches and games.